Month: January 2017

Indecisiveness is a lack of belief 

We don’t act based on data and reason, we act based on how we feel. Feelings are a function of beliefs. So if you can’t decide how to act, it’s because you have yet to adopt a belief to guide your feelings one way over another(s). For example, if you are shopping for a new cell phone and you can’t…

Disturbed by Disturbances 

Last night when I was getting in bed I pulled the covers aside and accidentally threw them on top of Pax, she was already asleep.  I felt bad so I quickly climbed into bed and pulled the covers off of her, onto me.  She barely flinched when the covers landed on top of her.  Every day people bump into us,…

Your thoughts are not your own

When you think and feel, it’s easy to assume that what you think and feel is what you want and who you are. If a big decision is being made and you favor one outcome over another, is it because of your thoughts alone? Perhaps you felt strongly one way over another, but is that way really the way that…