Which side of the circle?

Sometimes changing a single word, in your repertoire, can change your entire perspective. 

For example, instead of an emotionally laden word, pick a synonym that’s not. 

Like unproductive instead of immoral

In crafting a substitute, in this case, you have to think about what matters and not just shock appeal.

For a while now I’ve taught myself to shudder when I hear the word “side” as in “both sides of the table.”

This is my alternative:

Which side of the circle?

Now I think of the infinit spectrum of sides that are connected in a circle to remind myself that it’s simplistic and counterproductive to think in terms of only two sides.