Pick up pal 

Bad things happen, for example dropping a birthday cake that you just spent 2 hours  crafting. 

If you’re another person in the room, step up and offer to bake the next cake, or offer to go out and buy a cake, or just clean up the mess while they get started on the next cake.

It’s amazing how nice it is to have someone pick up the pieces when they fall apart so we don’t have to suffer further cleaning up and redoing our work. 

Hopefully then some day you’ll be the person that drops the cake and someone else will pick up the pieces for you.